dear expectant mother
Dear Expectant Mother,
As we open our hearts and write this letter, we are immensely grateful and blessed by your consideration of us for the most precious gift ever. We understand that it is not an easy decision to make, and with these decisions come great responsibility, strength, and courage. As we write this letter, there are not enough words to say thanks to you with either decision you decide to make.
We cannot wait to cherish this little one to our fullest and see them grow into a responsible adult. We can only imagine the future that will shine upon this joy to bring a kind and loving family, home, and friends. We are here with our all-embracing commitment and will do everything in our power to shape the future of this little one. We will adore this precious jewel knowing that you have placed your trust in us.
Please know you are not alone, now or ever. The future will bring peace, love, warmth, and a loving family forever. We want to greatly thank you from the bottom of our hearts and remember the sacrifices that have been made to honor your little one. We will respect your child in the skin they choose to be in and, most importantly, make them comfortable in any stage as they grow up from infancy to an adult. We promise to cherish and embrace them and let them bloom in a loving family with us.
Sincerely,
Gohar & Hafiz
About Us
We are Gohar and Hafiz, total opposites yet endearing to each other. Gohar is very smart, an engineer, and very outgoing. She loves to create and explore new ideas in the lab, such as a cure for monkeypox, and loves to run and play basketball in her leisure time. Hafiz loves to fix things, being a mechanical engineer, ranging from hot tube weldings to automatic robot deliveries. He loves playing with kids and loves being outdoors in every season. Ahmad is our beloved son. At two years old, he is very energetic, full of emotions and words, and a hugger! We hope to add joy, smiles, long-lasting laughter, and a compassionate, loving family with the addition of your child.
Our Home
We live in New Jersey, where everything can be found within a five- to ten-mile radius—from dining to the parks and schools, shopping centers, a bowling alley, and much more! All of our neighbors have been living in this lovely region of New Jersey for about 30-40 years. The neighborhood near us has a vastly diverse population and is very friendly. What makes this neighborhood special is that we moved here about three years ago from New York to live our dreams with a house and to grow our family in a special and friendly environment.
Our Extended Family
Hafiz’s side of the family is composed of two brothers, both married with three children each. Gohar’s side of the family is composed of three brothers, one married with one child.
Hafiz’s parents live in Pakistan as a joint family with all the brothers and children and are very outgoing. Gohar’s parents live close by, just ten minutes away, with the two sons. Our extended family loves to go out and eat food, spend time together on holidays, and, most importantly, bring joy and laughter on rainy days.
We are both from Pakistan, and all together, our total cousin count is near 30 cousins! We are both very close to each other’s families. We both go back to visit our home country every two to three years to keep in contact and up to date in real time with all our exciting news!
What Led Us To Adoption
Our journey for our biological family was very challenging and complicated yet rewarding. That journey not only wanted us to grow our family but also give our son a brother/ sister to play with, cherish his love, and complete our family of four. Our son, who came two weeks early with a traumatizing birth, was years later found to have a fatal genetic disorder that we cannot fathom for another child of our own. This journey of adopting and loving an adoptive child the way we do our own would make the impossible possible.
Fun Facts
About Gohar
| Occupation | Biomedical engineer |
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| Education | Bachelor of Science |
| Race | Asian |
| Favorite Food | Pineapple pizza |
| Favorite Hobby | Playing basketball |
| Favorite Movie | The Pursuit of Happyness |
| Favorite Music Group | Pentatonix |
| Favorite TV Show | Grey’s Anatomy |
| Favorite Subject in School | Art |
| Favorite Tradition | Game night |
| Dream Vacation | Maldives |
About Hafiz
| Occupation | Material engineer |
|---|---|
| Education | Bachelor of Science |
| Race | Asian |
| Favorite Food | Biryani |
| Favorite Hobby | Playing cricket |
| Favorite Movie | Lagaan |
| Favorite Music Group | Jal Band |
| Favorite TV Show | Alice in Borderland |
| Favorite Subject in School | Science |
| Favorite Tradition | Getting together on holidays |
| Dream Vacation | Tokyo |
Contact Gohar & Hafiz
Choose a Family for
Your Baby With Confidence
As you browse our list of hopeful adoptive parents, you can feel confident in knowing that all of the adoptive families working with Angel Adoption are prepared to offer your baby a safe, stable, and loving environment along with a wealth of opportunities for a happy and fulfilling life.
Each adoptive parent has been thoroughly evaluated through a home study course conducted by a licensed agency. A completed home study means the family is emotionally, physically, and financially ready to adopt a baby.
The home study process includes assessments of each parent’s character, marital stability, financial situation, lifestyle, and medical history. The agency also runs background checks to verify there is no record of criminal activity or child abuse. In addition, a social worker will inspect the family’s home to ensure it is a safe environment for a child.
Furthermore, Angel Adoption requires each family to be educated on adopting and parenting. After a baby has been placed with the adoptive family, a social worker will continue to monitor and supervise the family. We go to great lengths to make sure all the families you have to choose from are going to be excellent parents for your baby!
Not sure how to start? See our How to Choose an Adoptive Family resource page.
If you need more help, you’re always welcome to contact us any time!