dear expectant mother
Dear Expectant Mother,
We want to start by expressing our deep respect and admiration for you. We understand that considering adoption is a decision made out of extreme love and care, and we are honored you might consider us as potential parents for your precious child. We cannot begin to imagine all the emotions you are experiencing, but please know we are committed to providing a home filled with love, support, and endless opportunities for your child to grow and thrive.
If chosen, we promise to raise your child in a safe, nurturing, and joyous environment. Your child will know their story, the love that led to this decision, and the incredible strength you showed. We are dedicated to creating a life where your child feels seen, loved, and valued every single day. Family, to us, means unconditional love, unwavering support, and the freedom to become who they are meant to be.
We look forward to building a meaningful connection with you, one rooted in trust, respect, and hopes for the future. We are thankful for your consideration and would be honored to be with you in this journey, no matter what you decide. Thank you for considering us, and we wish you happiness and hope in the days ahead.
Sincerely,
Aaron and Ben
About Us
Hello! We are Aaron, Ben, and Cashden, and we’re excited to grow our family of three through adoption. Fate randomly brought us together, and we have been building our lives for nearly 11 years. We were blessed to adopt our six-year-old son, Cashden, from the foster care system. Aaron works as a dedicated child welfare supervisor at the county level and is a licensed therapist, while Ben brings passion and energy to his role as a science teacher and a successful high school volleyball coach. We love spending time outdoors, whether it's camping, playing volleyball, or traveling. We've enjoyed family trips to San Diego, Tampa, and Chicago and are looking forward to heading somewhere warm—like Arizona—this winter. Cashden is very active, participating in karate, horseback riding, and soccer, which keeps us on our toes! We're deeply involved in his life, supporting him as he grows and as he looks forward to becoming a big brother.
Our Home & Pets
Our home is in a peaceful spot in the Midwest, just five minutes away from our son’s school and nearby stores for all our needs. We love biking around the neighborhood, lounging by our pool on warm summer days, and taking our two furry companions for walks. We have a nine-year-old terrier mix named Nellie, and last December we welcomed a new yellow Lab puppy named Riley. Our pets are cherished members of the family, and most evenings you’ll find them cuddled up next to one of us.
Our Extended Family
We have a wonderful, large extended family, as you can see from the photo of our son’s adoption! Aaron comes from a big family with four siblings and more than 50 relatives. We often gather with many of them for cookouts, pool parties, and card nights. Every summer, the whole extended family embarks on a big camping trip at a nearby campground.
Ben comes from a slightly smaller family (It was definitely an adjustment to the size and energy of Aaron’s family) with one older brother and one older sister. He has grown a fond closeness with his nieces and nephews as they were always like little siblings to him growing up. Ben's family treasures holidays and enjoys coming together to celebrate these special traditions. Even though Ben’s family lives around various areas of the state, family time never misses a beat and is filled with laughter, games, and reminiscing.
Our Adoption Story
We are excited to begin our second adoption journey! Our wonderful six-year-old son, Cashden, was adopted from the foster care system, and we’re now hoping to expand our family and give him the opportunity to become a big brother. He’s thrilled about the idea of having a sibling and can’t wait to share all he’s learned with them. We've been open about our adoption experience with others in our lives, and we're fortunate to have inspired some to consider adoption as a way to grow their own families as well.
Fun Facts
About Aaron
| Occupation | Child welfare supervisor |
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| Education | Bachelor’s in social work, master’s in counseling |
| Race | Caucasian |
| Favorite Food | Steak |
| Favorite Hobby | Running |
| Favorite Movie | Passengers |
| Favorite TV Show | Survivor |
| Favorite Book | Rebecca Bender biography |
| Favorite Subject in School | Gym, music |
| Favorite Tradition | Camping |
| Dream Vacation | Ireland |
About Ben
| Occupation | Middle school science teacher |
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| Education | Bachelor’s in education |
| Race | Caucasian |
| Favorite Food | Pasta |
| Favorite Hobby | Coaching |
| Favorite Movie | Rudy |
| Favorite TV Show | Masterchef |
| Favorite Book | Bleachers |
| Favorite Subject in School | Biology |
| Favorite Tradition | Staycations |
| Dream Vacation | Greece |
Contact Aaron & Ben
Choose a Family for
Your Baby With Confidence
As you browse our list of hopeful adoptive parents, you can feel confident in knowing that all of the adoptive families working with Angel Adoption are prepared to offer your baby a safe, stable, and loving environment along with a wealth of opportunities for a happy and fulfilling life.
Each adoptive parent has been thoroughly evaluated through a home study course conducted by a licensed agency. A completed home study means the family is emotionally, physically, and financially ready to adopt a baby.
The home study process includes assessments of each parent’s character, marital stability, financial situation, lifestyle, and medical history. The agency also runs background checks to verify there is no record of criminal activity or child abuse. In addition, a social worker will inspect the family’s home to ensure it is a safe environment for a child.
Furthermore, Angel Adoption requires each family to be educated on adopting and parenting. After a baby has been placed with the adoptive family, a social worker will continue to monitor and supervise the family. We go to great lengths to make sure all the families you have to choose from are going to be excellent parents for your baby!
Not sure how to start? See our How to Choose an Adoptive Family resource page.
If you need more help, you’re always welcome to contact us any time!